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As you hit your 30s, relationships become a big deal. The friends you've had forever? They start getting even more important. You realize those connections are like fine wine – they deepen with time. But there's also this urge to make new connections, find buddies who get where you're at now. It's like juggling, making sure you're not dropping the old while trying to catch the new. So, how are you managing that balance? How do you keep those old friendships strong while diving into new ones that click with the person you're becoming?

LoganberryLauv2 wrote: Thu Jan 18, 2024 1:50 am As you hit your 30s, relationships become a big deal. The friends you've had forever? They start getting even more important. You realize those connections are like fine wine – they deepen with time. But there's also this urge to make new connections, find buddies who get where you're at now. It's like juggling, making sure you're not dropping the old while trying to catch the new. So, how are you managing that balance? How do you keep those old friendships strong while diving into new ones that click with the person you're becoming?

For me, I totally get it! I make sure to stay close with my long-time friends, you know, the ones I've known forever. At the same time, I'm open to meeting new people who vibe with the current me. It's like finding the right mix – keeping the old connections strong and being open to cool new ones. Just going with the flow and enjoying the ride!

LoganberryLauv2 wrote: Thu Jan 18, 2024 1:50 am As you hit your 30s, relationships become a big deal. The friends you've had forever? They start getting even more important. You realize those connections are like fine wine – they deepen with time. But there's also this urge to make new connections, find buddies who get where you're at now. It's like juggling, making sure you're not dropping the old while trying to catch the new. So, how are you managing that balance? How do you keep those old friendships strong while diving into new ones that click with the person you're becoming?

Hi! This is such an interesting question. I am not yet in my 30s, but in my opinion, a friend that will last forever is yourself. But in terms of friendships, is it really hard to have forever friends since both of you fix or create different pathways in life while balancing the friendship in different ways? For example, in my situation, I had different friends from work, school, and also in the world of casinos. I can consider new friends that I usually meet in an online casino. The topics will always be more relevant in a casino game than in a personal one. Well, the old friends remain in good communication as well, because it is really important. to make those both stronger always have good communication or a conversation, be honest, and keep the friendships going on~

LoganberryLauv2 wrote: Thu Jan 18, 2024 1:50 am As you hit your 30s, relationships become a big deal. The friends you've had forever? They start getting even more important. You realize those connections are like fine wine – they deepen with time. But there's also this urge to make new connections, find buddies who get where you're at now. It's like juggling, making sure you're not dropping the old while trying to catch the new. So, how are you managing that balance? How do you keep those old friendships strong while diving into new ones that click with the person you're becoming?

I completely resonate with that! Balancing existing deep connections with the desire for new ones is a delicate juggling act. I find that prioritizing quality over quantity, scheduling regular catch-ups with old friends, and actively seeking out like-minded individuals help maintain a healthy balance between cherished longstanding relationships and the excitement of new connections.

In my 30s, I'm trying to balance my old pals and new buddies. It's like enjoying long-lasting friendships and also making room for fresh connections that match who I am.

LoganberryLauv2 wrote: Thu Jan 18, 2024 1:50 am As you hit your 30s, relationships become a big deal. The friends you've had forever? They start getting even more important. You realize those connections are like fine wine – they deepen with time. But there's also this urge to make new connections, find buddies who get where you're at now. It's like juggling, making sure you're not dropping the old while trying to catch the new. So, how are you managing that balance? How do you keep those old friendships strong while diving into new ones that click with the person you're becoming?

Absolutely resonate with that! Balancing longstanding friendships, which are like fine wine, with the excitement of forging new connections in your 30s can be a juggling act. I find that open communication and intentional time for both old and new friends help maintain those deep connections while embracing personal growth and evolving relationships.

LoganberryLauv2 wrote: Thu Jan 18, 2024 1:50 am As you hit your 30s, relationships become a big deal. The friends you've had forever? They start getting even more important. You realize those connections are like fine wine – they deepen with time. But there's also this urge to make new connections, find buddies who get where you're at now. It's like juggling, making sure you're not dropping the old while trying to catch the new. So, how are you managing that balance? How do you keep those old friendships strong while diving into new ones that click with the person you're becoming?

I am more comfortable with my old friends, because they already know almost everything about me, with my new friends, the trust is not 100%, because my old friends are really the best, because they already know everything. To my new friend, I just hang out, not so deep conversation what I mean, it's like just friends, not bestfriends like that

I meet my new friends because of work, neighbors and my friends' friends. so in other words, how I can balance that, is that I can be with or talk to my old friends more often, of course they are OLD FRIENDS so those are the only people I am with in everything, in happiness, in sadness.....with new friends, I rarely hang out with my new friends, so our friendship isn't that deep yet